Maturity.

Matured?

Are you matured enough? or you're thinking that you're already matured?

based on what I've read in wiki :

"Maturity is a term used to indicate that a person responds to the circumstance or environment in an appropriate manner or being aware of the correct time and place to behave and knowing when to act in serious or non-serious ways."

As you can see, or what I can really see is, there are, a few people who judge on other people maturity based on what they wear and what they like. Especially those 'kami-paling-cool-lah' type of group. They simply judge people who are not like them to be inferior. Some of them even said, "aiseh, bro lu asal layan lagu anime2 ni, grow up man". I don't find hearing 'norm music' as a way to grow up. I found it as a way to 'show' that you're already grow up.

"Maturity is something of personal character, or how one acts in stressful or difficult situations, because then a person's true ability to react to a situation can be seen. Fake social interactions are often misjudged as many people rely on outward appearance to mask inner strengths/weaknesses so as to present a simpler version of oneself to the world."

"Additional ways to judge if a person is mature include rational thinking and logical explanation in solving a problem, and the art of reasoning while debating."

As you can see(again), being matured is judged by how people acts within their group, how they make decision to react and how they execute their move in certain situation. Not by how they fake themselves to join society and how they tend to generalize everyone who is different from them.


For me, every person has their own ways to show their maturity and it's up to them to do every thing that they love the most even though it's sometimes the out-of-norm activity(except things that prohibited by Islam, itu-tak-boleh-aa).

If every people in the world is the same, there would be no Kurt Kobain, Einstein and even Dr. Mahathir.